Counseling for Teens and Tweens
Your teen may look like she has it all together, but underneath she is anxious and overwhelmed. She struggles to manage the constant barrage of activities, responsibilities, and input from social media during a time already heavy with worry, change and social development. She is filled with self criticism, overthinking and a constant fear of failure. Everyday, no matter how hard she tries, she feels like it — that she — is never enough.
You might notice it in your teen’s intense moods and “meltdowns.” It might show up as rebellion and refusing to adhere to established rules; or it could be isolating himself from the people and things that used to be important to him. It can look like perfectionism and chasing endless achievements. Or, chronic underachieving is an understatement and yet no amount of consequences seems to motivate him to try harder. Does he have more contact in the virtual world than in the world around him? Is this just “today’s generation”?
You have been trying your best to support your teen, but at times it feels like nothing you do is right and you wonder if you should stop trying so hard. You check in with other parents and hear similar stories, leaving you uncertain on where to turn next.